Into the Multisex multiverse

Projects developed in art school often remain at a level of mere imagination, grand and contained in their realm of possibility. That’s how Multisex was initially bred – a scholarly, design-focused project conceived by a bunch of students. With a bit of will and a shared devotion to communion, house music, and sensuality, it exceeded what many would have left in a state of hypothesis. Meet Marilena Büld, Vicky Abiola, Steph Quinci and Dario Jérôme Dammé, some of the sparkling minds behind one of Berlin’s most prolific curatorial expanses – with good sound implied, and proportionate style annexed. Nowadays, the self-contained universe of Multisex keeps gauging new horizons, with 3 parties, both in Amsterdam and Berlin, keeping our summer schedules in check. Is party even the appropriate term for their 24-hour, multidisciplinary events? It might be your cue to decide for yourself. We delved with the aficionados into the world of the dancefloor and all that it holds – their dream that caught momentum, its production, and its intrinsic rewards.

Multisex is turning eight this year — a huge milestone. How would you say the collective has evolved over time, and in what ways has your connection with the community deepened?
Dario: Multisex actually started back in 2016 during our time at art school — originally as a speculative design project, of all things. It began with small parties in a university context, but things quickly took on a life of their own. In 2017, we hosted our first intimate club night at OHM, which was also a celebration of a friend’s solo exhibition. From there, it evolved into more of a dance-focused house music event. What’s stayed constant is our holistic approach — we’ve always treated the curation of music, club design, and communication as one cohesive experience. That consistent atmosphere is what’s helped build such a strong and loyal community. In the early days, we did a lot of personal footwork to get people to come out — we’d literally text and call friends to pull them in. Those early, almost DIY efforts laid the foundation for what’s now become a tight-knit, dedicated crowd that keeps showing up for us.

Marilena: Over time, it kind of naturally evolved from something small and spontaneous into a cultural space. As the collective has grown, so has the bond with our community. There is somehow a real trust now. people return because they feel part of something.

Steph: Multisex has grown up as we have. The core essence and vibe is still like when it started in the small smoky 1-room club OHM but it’s elevated now, more mature, dynamic, but always moody, sexy and vibey.

Victoria: I’ve had the pleasure of being a part of the Multisex production team for 2  years. In this time, I’ve witnessed several changes including our move from Watergate to Tresor and the subtle shifts in our audience. We see both a younger demographic combined with the recommitment of our day one attendees who are now close friends. These changes have required us to evolve with a focus on both expanding our club reach and initiating events to meet our established community. With this in mind, we have decided to hold our first Multisex outside of Berlin and launch a new event series in Berlin outside of the clubbing experience. „You are the party“ is more than a slogan, but something we truly believe in. With the people at the forefront of our minds, we continue to rethink the party and collective to continue bringing value and most importantly a fun fresh experience.

Fashion, architecture, art, and music all collide in Multisex’s world. How do you navigate this kind of interdisciplinarity, and how do your personal practices or passions shape the collective’s direction?

Marilena: What I love most about Multisex is that everyone brings in what they do best. It’s a space where each of us can contribute our unique skills. As the art director, I have the freedom to explore themes I’m currently interested in as an artist, mostly playfully and without constraints. Since Multisex isn’t tied to an institution and doesn’t aim to make a profit, it’s liberated from certain pressures or expectations.

Steph: Most of us on the team work within creative fields, I myself am a professional dancer and performer, I find myself bringing my flavor for drama, glam and character into the party. For me doing the door and selection and joining the party is an extension of myself and my work as a performer.

Dario: It all just comes from the same place — my studies and personal passions have always revolved around music, architecture, fashion, and design. So when Multisex came into being, it felt natural to mix all those elements together. My background in interior architecture really influences how we think about space. Things like lighting and atmosphere are crucial when you’re designing environments where people come together to let loose. It might not be something guests notice consciously, but that attention to ambiance plays a big role in how people feel at our events. When the space is right, everything else flows more naturally.

Victoria: The interdisciplinarity is easy to navigate because each member embodies a piece of the puzzle. A real differentiator for Multisex is that our team comes from vast career paths that are outside of the nightlife scene. We bring our findings, interests, and passions to the collective with a sense of ease. Personally, I bring 10 years of corporate experience working in cybersecurity to the group. With this, I help professionalise our productions and being a part of the BIPOC community, I have made it one of my goals to continue booking diverse talents and encouraging more diversity in our attendees. Being a part of Multisex is something we want to do, not something we have to do to make ends meet. I feel that makes all difference and that we bring that energy to all our events.

What’s the most rewarding part of being part of Multisex, for you personally?
Marilena: Multisex gives me the freedom to creatively explore topics I wouldn’t normally have time for in my everyday art practice as a stage and costume designer. It’s a space to experiment, without the usual restrictions of commissioned work.

Steph: The most rewarding part is finishing a shift at the door and entering the party to enjoy the vibe and crowd that I helped curate.

Dario: It’s still honestly just the simple joy of spending time with my best friends in a club — listening to great music, dancing with strangers, and watching people completely let go. That feeling when you look around and see everyone fully immersed in the moment? You can’t fake that. It’s pure, and it makes all the effort worth it.

Victoria: Multisex has given me the chance to merge two areas of my life that were once at odds with one another. Using my corporate IT background to help produce one of the leading parties in Berlin has been such a blessing, haha. I’ve been lucky enough to step out from production into DJing at some of our parties. I have also been able to book artists for the first time for our Pentecost edition on June 8. I cherish these opportunities infinitely.

Multisex is known for its mysterious, trust-driven line-ups. How did you build such a strong bond with your audience that they’re excited to dance first, and ask questions later?
Marilena: I think people trust Multisex. It’s less about specific DJs and more about a feeling that’s grown over the years. There’s something special about knowing that people come for the vibe and the experience, rather than just a big headliner.

Steph: Personally in my role it’s through selecting the crowd. Although more and more new people come each time, the party is built on a strong base of regulars. A tough but honest selection allows for intimacy and most importantly safety, which is essential for any party and fosters a sense of community among party-goers. 

Dario: I’ve been part of the nightlife scene here since I was a teenager — maybe spending too many hours on dance floors — and electronic music has always been a deep passion of mine. I still nerd out daily, listening to hours of mixes, sets, and recordings from all over the world. That kind of immersion naturally feeds into our programming. We curate with intention. It’s not just about genre — it’s about energy, contrast, and chemistry. We mix artists from different house-adjacent subgenres and scenes, often people who already have a relationship with each other. That dynamic brings a unique spark to each night, and I think the crowd feels that authenticity — which helps build trust, even when they don’t know who’s playing.

Victoria: Trust is built over time and something that we have luckily earned after several years of amazing curation. Although Multisex doesn’t have resident DJs, we have built a network of like minded artists that embody our sound. We don’t take the trust for granted and do the work behind the scenes to stay relevant on music, labels, and other happenings in nightlife to continue to develop. This continuous improvement and the relationship we have with the artists and crowd are the secret sauce. 

As you gear up for your Amsterdam debut, what are you most looking forward to — on and off the dance floor?
Dario: This is our first time taking Multisex outside of Berlin, so we really wanted to bring the full experience with us. That means our signature unannounced line-up, our lighting concept, our awareness and hosting team — even the extended 21-hour runtime, which is a first for The Loft. What’s really exciting is that quite a few Berliners are making the trip, so I’m hopeful we’ll create this beautiful collision between our home crowd and the local Amsterdam scene. Personally, I’m hoping we can bring a bit of beautifully chaotic energy to the space — something a little less polished. Dutch nightlife is incredible, but sometimes it can feel a bit too organized for my taste. So if we manage to stir things up just enough to leave a bit of a mess (in the best way possible), I’ll be happy.

Steph: I am so excited to bring our Berlin flavor abroad and to see how the mood translates in Amsterdam. The tall Dutch men I hope to see there are an added bonus.

Victoria: Similarly to when we moved to Tresor, it’s always exciting and a challenge to bring the party to „new territory“. I’m thrilled to see fresh faces in the crowd and to hold the Party at the sleek and sexy venue – The Loft. Each time we try something new, we learn immensely. I’m keen to see how this event will shape how we work and where we go in the future 

Marilena: I’m really excited to see the Berlin music scene blend with Amsterdam’s energy and to experience the dreamy atmosphere of The Loft. It feels like a beautiful opportunity for cultural exchange, and I can’t wait to see how it unfolds.